You can't really know where you are going until
you know where you have been.”
~ Maya Angelou

This month prompts reflection on the profound influence of women and mothers in our lives.

In my family lineage, the Strong name carries a legacy of resilience and resourcefulness. These Strong Women epitomized the ethos of "make do or do without," a mindset forged in the crucible of the Depression era. Their days were filled with the art of mending clothes and crafting meals from scratch, instilling values of thriftiness and hard work. In the Strong household, even the use of toilet paper was regulated, a symbol of their aversion to wastefulness. These lessons taught me to navigate life with ingenuity, frugality, and a strong work ethic.

Another influential woman in my life imparted the mantra "plan to live, then live the plan." Rather than settling for what was at hand, she challenged me to envision a broader realm of possibilities. Her guidance illuminated a path where resourcefulness and ambition intersected, fostering a sense of freedom and potential. Through her wisdom, I learned the power of strategic planning and honoring core values.

Two additional figures hold significant importance to me: my past and future selves.

My past self, though imperfect, laid the groundwork for my present. She pursued her passions unabashedly, embracing change and learning from mistakes. While prone to procrastination disguised as spontaneity, she also harnessed the importance of consistency and self-commitment. Getting to know her has deepened my appreciation for her resilience and determination.

My future self embodies wisdom and experience yet to be attained. She navigates life with grace and insight, having achieved milestones I aspire to reach. Recognizing her strengths and vulnerabilities, I strive to care for her by making mindful choices in the present. Whether it's maintaining a healthy lifestyle or securing financial stability, I act with her well-being in mind.

Reflecting on the lessons from these women—past, present, and future—shapes my present approach to life. Their resilience, wisdom, and foresight inspire me to embrace challenges with courage and compassion.

As we honor the community of mothers in our lives, let us also extend that same care and reverence to ourselves. Happy Mother’s Day!